Prohibitions that are taken too lightly – Complete book by Sheikh Munajjid
Isbaal – wearing clothes that come down below the ankles
One of the things which people treat as insignificant, although it is serious in the sight of Allaah, is isbaal, which means lengthening one’s clothes below the ankles; some people let their clothes touch the ground, and some allow them to drag on the floor behind them.
Abu Dharr (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There are three to whom Allaah will not speak on the Day of Resurrection, nor look at nor praise: the one who wears his lower garment below the ankles; the one who reminds others of his gifts or favours; and the one who sells his product by means of lies and false oaths.” (Reported by Muslim, 1/102).
The one who says, “I am not wearing my clothes below my ankles out of arrogance” is in fact praising himself in a way that is unacceptable. The warning against isbaal is issued to all, regardless of whether they do it out of arrogance or not, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whatever part of the lower garment is below the ankles is in Hell.” (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 6/254; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5571). The person whose isbaal is the result of arrogance will be more severely punished than the one who has no such intention, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever trails his garment out of pride, Allaah will not even look at him on the Day of Resurrection.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, no. 3465, al-Bagha edition) – this is because he is combining two sins in one action. Wearing any clothes below the ankle is haraam, as is indicated in the hadeeth reported by Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him and his father): “Isbaal may be done with an izaar (lower garment), qamees (shirt or upper garment) and ‘amaamah (turban); whoever drags any part of them on the ground out of pride, Allaah will not look at him on the Day of Resurrection.” (Reported by Abu Dawud, 4/353; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 2770). Women are permitted to lengthen their garments by one or two handspans to cover the feet or as a precaution against anything being uncovered by the wind, etc., but it is not permitted to do more than that, as is done with some wedding dresses which may have a train several metres long, which has to be carried behind the bride.
Men wearing gold in any shape or form
Abu Moosa al-Ash’ari (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Silk and gold have been permitted for the females of my ummah, and have been forbidden for the males.” (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 4/393; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 207).
The market nowadays is filled with any number of items designed for men, such as watches, spectacles, buttons, pens, chains and so-called “medallions,” made of gold of various standards, or completely gold-plated. One of the common sins occurs in competitions where among the prizes are men’s gold watches.
Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) saw a man wearing a gold ring; he took it and threw it aside, saying, “Would any of you take a burning ember from Hell and hold it in his hand?” After the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) had gone away, someone suggested to the man: “Why don’t you take your ring and benefit from it (sell it)?” He said, “No, by Allaah, I will never take it back when the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) has thrown it aside.” (Reported by Muslim, 3/1655).
Women wearing short, tight or see-though clothes
One of the ways in which our enemies are attacking us in modern times is by means of the fashions which they design and promote, and which have become popular among Muslims. These fashions do not cover anything, because they are so short, transparent or tight; many of them are inappropriate for wearing even in front of other women or one’s mahrams! The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told us that these kinds of clothes would appear among the women of the last times, as was reported in the hadeeth narrated by Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him): “There are two types of the people of Hell that I have not seen: people who have whips like the tails of cattle, with which they strike the people; and women who are dressed but naked, walking with an enticing gait, with their hair looking like the humps of camels, leaning sideways. They will not enter Paradise or even smell its fragrance, although its fragrance can be detected from such-and-such a distance.” (Reported by Muslim, 3/1680). Also included in this type of clothes are the garments worn by some women which have long slits from the hem, or pieces cut out here and there; when the wearer sits down, her ‘awrah (i.e., everything except the face and hands) becomes visible, apart from the fact that by wearing such clothes a woman is resembling the kuffaar and following their fashions and trends of revealing clothes. We ask Allaah to keep us safe from all that. Another serious matter as regards clothing is the bad pictures which appear on some clothes, such as pictures of singers and rock groups, bottles of wine etc., pictures of animate beings which are forbidden in Islam, crosses, logos of immoral clubs and societies, or bad words which do not befit people of honour, which may be written in foreign languages.
Wearing wigs and hairpieces, whether made from natural or artificial hair, for men and women
Asmaa’ bint Abi Bakr said: “A woman came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, ‘O Messenger of Allaah, I have a daughter who is going to be married; she had a fever and lost much of her hair – can I give attach false hair to her head?’ He said: ‘Allaah has cursed the one who attaches false hair and the one who has this done.'” (Reported by Muslim, 3/1676). Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) issued strict instructions that no woman should add anything to her head.” (Reported by Muslim, 3/1679).
Examples of this include the things known nowadays as wigs and hair extensions, and the many evil things with which salons are crowded. Also included are the artificial wigs worn by some actors and actresses who have no morals.
Men resembling women and women resembling men, in dress, speech and appearance
Part of the fitrah (natural inclinations of mankind) is that men should preserve the masculinity which Allaah has created in them, and women should preserve the femininity which Allaah has created in them. Without this, decent human life becomes impossible. Men resembling women and vice versa is something which goes against man’s innate nature (fitrah) and opens the door to corruption and widespread promiscuity. The ruling in sharee’ah is that when it is stated that the person who does a thing is cursed, that thing is haraam. Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him and his father) reported that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah has cursed the men who make themselves look like women and the women who make themselves look like men.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari; see al-Fath, 10/332). Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him and his father) also reported that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah has cursed effeminate men and masculine women.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, see al-Fath, 310/333). The resemblance may be in the way they move, walk and speak.
Similarly, the two sexes are not permitted to resemble one another in dress or by wearing anything that is specifically for the other sex. So a man is not permitted to wear necklaces, bracelets, anklets or earrings, etc., as is widespread among hippies and the like. Women are not permitted to wear things that are specifically for men, like the thawb (long garment worn by men in Arab countries), shirts, etc.; whatever she wears should be different in style, details and colour. The evidence that the two sexes should not resemble one another in dress is found in the hadeeth narrated by Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him): “Allaah has cursed the man who wears women’s clothes and the woman who wear men’s clothes.” (Reported by Abu Dawud, 4/355; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5071).
Dyeing one’s hair black
The correct opinion is that it is haraam to do this, because of the warning mentioned in the hadeeth: “At the end of time there will be people who dye their hair black like the crops of pigeons; they will never smell the fragrance of Paradise.” (Reported by Abu Dawud, 4/419; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 8153). This practice is widespread among those who have grey hairs, which they cover with black dye; this leads to many evils, such as deceit, and cheating people by boasting of something which is not true. It is true that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to dye his grey hairs with henna, which gave a yellowish, reddish or brownish hue. When Abu Quhaafah, whose hair and beard was as white as thughaamah (plant whose leaves and flowers are intensely white) was brought to him on the day of the Conquest of Makkah, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Change this with something, but avoid black.” (Reported by Muslim, 3/1663). The correct view is that women are like men in this regard: they are not permitted to dye any hairs black that are not black.
Having pictures of animate beings on clothing, walls or paper, etc.
‘Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The people who will be most severely punished by Allaah on the Day of Resurrection are the picture-makers.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, see al-Fath, 10/382). Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah says: ‘Who does more wrong than the one who tries to create something like My creation; let him create a grain of wheat or an ear of corn . . .'” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, see Fath al-Baari, 10/385). Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “Every picture-maker will be in the Fire, and for each picture that he made he will be given a soul, and he will be punished in Hell.” Ibn ‘Abbaas said: If you must make pictures, draw trees and things that do not possess a soul.” (Reported by Muslim, 3/1671). These ahaadeeth clearly indicate that it is haraam to make images of animate beings, whether they be humans or different kinds of animals, whether the images are two- or three dimensional. Pictures are forbidden whether they are drawn, engraved, carved, etched or cast from moulds. The ahaadeeth which forbid making pictures cover all these methods.
The Muslim should accept what the Sharee’ah says, without arguing. Some may say “Well, I am not worshipping these pictures or prostrating to them!” But if you look closely and think about just one of the bad effects of the widespread presence of pictures in our times, you will understand the wisdom behind this prohibition: this bad effect is the provocation of sexual desire which leads to immorality, because of these pictures.
The Muslim should not keep any pictures of animate beings in his house, because this prevents the angels from entering his home. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The angels do not enter a house where there is a dog or pictures.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, see al-Fath, 10/380). In many houses there are even statues, some of which represent the gods of the kuffar, which are kept for decoration; these are more haraam than other kinds, just as pictures which are hung up are worse than pictures which are not hung up. How often have pictures led to glorification and grief, and led to boasting! We should not say that the pictures are kept for memories, for true memories of dear fellow-Muslims lie in the heart, and one remembers them by praying for forgiveness and mercy for them. One should remove all these pictures, or blot them out, except when it is too difficult to do so, as with these pictures which are all over food packaging, or in encyclopaedias and reference books; even then, you should try to remove it, and to be careful about the bad pictures in some books. It is permissible to keep some necessary pictures, such as those on identity cards and licences, or pictures which are walked on (such as pictures in carpets). “So keep your duty to Allaah and fear Him as much as you can . . .” [al-Taghaabun 64:16]
Lying about one’s dreams
Some people deliberately fabricate dreams and visions that they have not really seen, as a means of gaining spiritual prestige and fame, or for some material gains, or to scare their enemies, and the like. Many of the common people have a strong beliefs in dreams and are easily deceived by such lies. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) issued a stern warning to whoever does such a thing: “One of the worst types of lie is for a man to claim to belong to someone other than his real father, or to claim to have seen something which he did not see, or to attribute to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) words that he did not say.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, see al-Fath, 6/540). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) also said: “Whoever claims to have seen a dream which he did not see will be ordered to tie two grains together, and he will never be able to do it . . .” (Reported by al-Bukhaari; see al-Fath, 12/427). Tying two grains together is impossible, so the punishment will fit the crime.
Sitting or walking on graves, or answering the call of nature in a graveyard
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If any of you were to sit on a live coal and let it burn his clothes until it reached his skin, this would be better for him than sitting on a grave.” (Reported by Muslim, 2/667). As for stepping on graves, many people do this, and when a person is buried you can see people who do not care where they walk (even wearing shoes sometimes) on neighbouring graves, with no respect for the dead. The seriousness of this matter is clear from the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “If I were to walk on coals or on a sword, or to mend my shoe with my own foot, this would be better for me than walking on the grave of a Muslim.” (Reported by Ibn Maajah, 1/499; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5038). So what about those who take over the site of a graveyard and build businesses or homes there? As for responding to the call of nature in a graveyard, this is something done by people who have no morals at all. When they feel the need, they jump over the wall of the graveyard and offend the dead with their unpleasant odours and impure waste matter. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “‘I wouldn’t care if it were in the middle of the graveyard or in the middle of the marketplace” (ibid.) – i.e. answering the call of nature in a graveyard is like uncovering one’s ‘awrah and answering the call of nature in front of people in a marketplace. Those who deliberately throw their trash into graveyards (especially those which are abandoned and whose walls are broken down) are included in this condemnation. Among the etiquette required of those who visit graveyards is taking off their shoes when they want to walk between graves.
Not cleaning oneself properly after passing water
One of the beauties of Islam is that it teaches everything that will improve and reform mankind, including how to remove impurities by cleaning oneself properly after urinating or defecating. But some people are very careless about this matter, and allow their clothes and bodies to become contaminated, thus causing their prayers to be invalidated. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told us that this is one of the causes for the punishment in the grave. Ibn ‘Abbaas said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) passed by one of the gardens of Madeenah, and heard the sound of two men being punished in their graves. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “They are being punished, but they are not being punished for any major sin. One of them used not to clean himself properly after urinating, and the other used to spread malicious gossip.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari; see Fath al-Baari, 1/317). Indeed, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said that “most of the punishment of the grave will be because of urine.” (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 2/326; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 1213). Not cleaning oneself properly after urinating also includes undue haste in completing the action, or deliberately urinating in a position or place where the urine can come back on oneself, or failing to clean oneself afterwards, or not cleaning oneself properly. Modern imitation of the kuffaar has reached such an extent that some rest rooms for men contain wall-mounted urinals which are open to view, so a person who uses them is urinating in full view of anyone who comes and goes with no shame, in the midst of impurity. Thus he combines two abhorrent and forbidden acts in one deed: not hiding his private parts from the view of others, and nor cleaning himself properly after urinating.
